The more obvious ones

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Look around and you’ll see them. They don’t hide in plain view. They have your attention even before you realize that you’re looking. Enter any classroom and you’ll see them. They are the center of everyone’s attention, giving tutorials to their classmates on lectures they received together. When it’s time to choose characters for the school drama they get lead roles. Nobody gets surprised. There’s no contest. Sometimes they move in groups, fulfilling the proverbial saying that birds of the same feathers flock together. Sometimes they walk alone. Enter any establishment and you’ll see them. They are the ones directing their colleagues on what to do. They are in churches too. Check your choirs and you’ll see them leading worship like they’ve sat in the presence of God forever. Go to the modelling industry. They’re the ones that have ‘super’ attached to their names. In the movie industries, they easily get the lead roles. They have been doing it all their lives. There is a mark of special quality in them that is not hidden. It’s not difficult to pick them out in a crowd. They are the more obvious ones.

I’ve noticed that in this world chances are always given to the more obvious ones. It’s just human nature to give opportunities to those that are not hesitant to step up and take centre stage. It didn’t start today. Generations upon generations have always picked out the more obvious ones. Supposing you’re in a managerial position and you need to get a job done. Naturally, you’ll choose the one that volunteers or appears capable of handling such responsibilities. Meanwhile there may just be someone hidden in the background who is more than capable of taking the lead. It’s just human nature.

Even the bible is filled with examples of the more obvious ones. When the Prophet, Samuel went to anoint a king in the house of Jesse, David’s father, he saw so many obvious ones. All David’s brothers were tall, huge and king-like. David’s father did not even remember to call him from the fields. Also, later in his life, when Goliath was threatening their land and David showed up to challenge him, nobody thought he was going to achieve much. Perhaps if it had been one of his brothers in the army the people would have hailed him jubilantly. Many decades after Jesus also faced the same issue. There was just no way the people could accept that he was the Messiah. He wasn’t huge and powerful like Samson. He wasn’t commanding any army like Joshua. He was just a simple man.

We always look out for the more obvious ones. During interviews and recruitments, the one with better qualifications and references always seems like the best choice. When choosing a partner, the one with the better job and better looks always seems like the best choice. Even when choosing friends, nobody goes for the less attractive person. Anybody walking with human feelings and understanding will always go for the more obvious ones. It is only with discernment that you can detect the right one. If you look very well there may be a small David somewhere that is able to achieve much more than you can imagine.

Sometimes you need to pay more attention to the less obvious ones.

Femmetotale.

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9 thoughts on “The more obvious ones

  1. Tosin says:

    Oh my! This is so deep . we really need to look out for the less obvious ones ,because sometimes, great surprise might not come in attractive packages! Just like you said Jesus came simply, as son of an ordinary carpenter! but in him lies great blessings.
    Thank you so much for this. Don”t stop sharing.
    http://www.chavivas.blogspot.com

  2. Lizzieebunoluwa says:

    Aaaah Femmetotale!…this is not fair, how do you expect me to contain my comments when you deliver messages that are always remarkably wrapped with such depth, wisdom and profound, just by expounding on the seemingly mundane?…

    Right on the money sisteh!… Man is a Spirit, we are thus not given to decisions without discerning…i’m taking this and running with it.
    This post reminds me of the very first question thrown at us in my freshman year, “Sociology is the study of the obvious. Discuss ”
    Suffice it to say that our lack of the discerning powers required of a sociologist in examining questions, society and human behaviour caused us to flunk that question a number of times.

    May we learn to harness our God-given discerning ability!
    Blessings!

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